Roger Charles Mueller
Roger C. Mueller, 94, of Greenville, South Carolina widower of Betty Ann Mueller, died peacefully in his sleep on Easter Sunday, April 5, 2026.
Roger was an only child born June 11, 1931, in Buffalo, New York to John and Alice Mueller. His many interests and strong desire for knowledge led him to earn a Bachelor’s Degree in Teaching from Buffalo State University. Filled with ambition and drive, he eventually completed a Master’s Degree with dual certification in Administration and Counseling from Hofstra University, simultaneously taking night courses and working full-time to support his family. He retired after 31 years as an industrial arts teacher, guidance counselor, principal, administrator and Director of Special Education at the Oceanside School District on Long Island, New York. During his tenure, Roger invested many years in helping families who had children with special needs. After retiring, he was hired to teach classes at Stony Brook University.
Throughout his life, he maintained a strong work ethic that was cultivated in his youth while taking on varied jobs including a soda jerk, bowling pinsetter, typesetter, bus driver, janitor, and driver’s education instructor, continuing his “do whatever it takes” attitude. Striving for independence and self-reliance, he worked as a mechanic in a Chevy dealership auto body shop to earn money for his first car.
Roger was a car enthusiast who enjoyed road trips with family and friends to US State and National Parks, dancing, sailing, gardening, and antique car shows. He was an avid baseball fan, enjoyed music and theatrical performances, and bowled for over 80 years. He and his daughter continued this passion participating in a weekly bowling league and gaining the respect and admiration of his fellow league mates.
A creative craftsman and skilled woodworker, Roger often made furniture as gifts, while expertly maintaining his home and building things for his family to enjoy each day. Family was extremely important to him, and he consistently provided unwavering love, support, and encouragement.
Roger was present and patient, taking time to listen, laugh, and share stories with those he met. An optimist in his nineties, he often remarked, “What a glorious day!” Many friends and family benefited from receiving his heartfelt cards or calls on special occasions, spreading his kindness and generosity. He was inspirational, lived his life well, and hoped to one day be on the Smucker’s label at 100 years old. He will be missed by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Roger is survived by his three children, Marc Mueller (Leah Streetman), Karen Whitehead (Doug), and Paul Mueller (Jamie Mandel); four grandchildren, Emily and Seth Whitehead, and Lily and Ray Mandel-Mueller; and one great-granddaughter, Willow Caraway.
He was preceded in death by his parents, John and Alice Mueller; his wife, Betty, of 54 years; and his beloved friend, Margaret Britton.
No services are scheduled at this time.


Roger was a great friend & neighbor at Rolling Green Village. We talked often and his stories about teaching and administering in programs for special-needs children were both interesting and compassionate. He also spoke often of his family, especially his grandchildren. I Loved is sense of humor. I will miss him greatly and will think of him, and his convertible, often. In the Lord’s Peace, Don B.
What a Godly man who had a Godly daughter, Karen. God bless you all and prayers for you all.