Joyce Banister, 77, of Simpsonville, wife of William Banister, died on Tuesday, September 22, 2026.
Born in Needham, MA, she was a daughter of the late Harold & Marjorie Morse Wheeler.
Joyce lived a life defined by service to others and an unwavering devotion to the people she loved. As the youngest of seven children, she learned early on the value of family, resilience, and resourcefulness—qualities that guided her every day as a devoted mother of two and a proud grandmother of two.
She married a Southerner in uniform, building a life centered on home and loved ones. Even though she moved away from her brothers and sisters, she made sure to stay connected. Family always came first for Joyce.
Whenever challenges arose, she was practical and determined, always finding a way to make things happen for those who relied on her. Her frugality was never about going without; it was about ensuring her family had everything they needed and more.
Caring and supportive, Joyce naturally put others before herself. She dedicated countless hours to serving her community and supporting veterans, proudly standing as a Life Member of VFW Auxiliary 1845 and an active member of American Legion Post 271.
Those who knew her best will remember her bright mind and spirited nature. She had an insatiable curiosity, always reading to stay educated on any topic, and stayed sharp with a mind full of trivial knowledge. She loved playing all sorts of games with her family—from cards, to dominoes, to board games—and she was happiest sharing those moments around the table, always with a piece of chocolate close at hand.
Her warmth, intelligence, and selfless heart leave a lasting legacy for her children, grandchildren, and everyone whose life she touched.
In addition to her husband, Mrs. Banister is survived by two daughters, Stacie Banister (Rob), and Kelly Kuhlhoff (Trent); two grandchildren, Kyle and Jordan Kuhlhoff; one brother, Sandy Wheeler (Dottie); two sisters, Judy Crossman and Merry Jennings; and many nieces and nephews.
She was preceded in death by two brothers, Henry Wheeler and Stevie Wheeler; and one sister, Donna King.
A graveside service for family and friends will be held at Greenville Memorial Gardens on November 14, 2026 at 1:00 pm.
In lieu of flowers please feel free to donate to a charity of your choice in her memory and to continue her legacy of giving back to others.
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While we did not have the pleasure of knowing Mrs. Banister. We do know and love Kelly and offer our deepest sympathies to her, her family and all those who knew and loved her mom.
Beautiful words for Aunty Joyce, the picture is just great. Seeing her smile. I will miss you, your drives home to visit so many times with family. Great memories. Love ❤️ you aunt Joyce
I worked with Mrs. B at Fork Shoals. She was a wonderful lady and I really enjoyed working with her. She was always smiling and it made my day brighter when I saw her. I know she’ll truly be missed. Prayers of peace and comfort to her family and friends.
A life well lived. Deep grief is a sign of deeper love. Condolences to all dealing with her loss. This world will seem a little darker without her.
I was saddened to hear of the passing of Joyce. She was a kind and sweet lady, who always wore a smile. My deepest condolences to her family in this time of loss. May you experience the peace and comfort that only our Lord and Savior can give during these difficult days.
I worked with Joyce for many years at Bryson Middle. She was always so supportive and eager to help. The world was a better place with Joyce in it so Heaven is rejoicing having her.
Enjoyed working with Joyce at Bryson. She was always willing to help children and staff in any way she could. Joyce will be remembered for her kindness, loyalty, and goodness. Jennie Gault
My condolences and deepest sympathy to the family of Mrs. Joyce Banister. Rest in Peace, Mrs Banister and thank you for your service to the veterans, the community and VFW Post 1845 Auxillary and Comrades
Cynthia Latimore
DAV SC District 4 Chaplain